Breaking up is difficult. You can make it easier on your girlfriend if you break up with her in the right way. Being nice when you end the relationship makes it easier for her to cope with her true feelings instead of having to deal with anger about how you broke up with her.
Instructions
1. Pick an appropriate time and place. You should choose a secluded but neutral spot to lessen her embarrassment. When you are deciding when to break up with her, consider her schedule. If you were supposed to accompany her to an important event in the near future, it may be best to delay the break up until after the event especially if she may be unable to find another escort.
2. Use your own words. Using cliches or common break up phrases may make her feel like you are being shallow.
3. Express your true feelings. When you are trying to break up with your girlfriend nicely, place all of the blame on yourself. Blaming her or pointing out her faults will make her feel worse.
4. Follow through on what you say you will do. For example, if you say that you want to remain friends with her, make sure that you try to do just that. If you want to part ways and leave her alone completely, let her know that and do it.
5. Understand that you will still have mutual friends. Because of this, you may run into her at some events. This means that you may see each other with new dates. This can be difficult. If you know that this will happen, it is a good idea to let her know ahead of time so she can be prepared.
6. Keep the break up quiet. She will tell people if she wants them to know. Let her be the one who spreads the news.
